BLOCKED

I want you to realize the selfishness of so many people, especially those with whom you  have some level of acquaintance. This happens to us all.    When your acquaintances or friends  are doing well, they are excited, elated, and enjoying their lives and have little to no time to entertain or interact with you.  To be honest most of them find new friends because they don't want to share their experiences of joy or increase with you.  Suddenly you who befriend them, gave a listening ear to their problems, provided a shoulder to lean on, etc become to mediocre to share their joy, increase or breakthrough.  

When things didn't look good for them, they had all the advice in the world to share with you, Watch out for this...don't let nobody use you.....be careful of what you say....all men are dogs or all men are alike...women are users....etc. etc. Everything negative is gladly and freely shared...not a problem at all. Hey, were friends you're my girl, you're my boy, I got your back. When things change in their lives for the better, you're no longer their girl, their boy, their spa, or whatever they refer to us as. What happened? They needed someone to dump all of their pain, disclose all of their issues and deposit all of their hurt upon and that was YOU.

Things are better now.  They got a job so they have money in their pockets.  Some one is now interested in them and giving them some attention and affection, so they've overcome their hurt.  They finally got a vehicle so you're not their boy or their girlie anymore.  Suddenly you're BLOCKED.  How often does this happen? Everyday we are used by people who don't value our time, our sincerity, our kindness, our counsel.  My advice to you is to stop availing yourself or pursuing the person. They will be down again, get hurt again, need transportation again, need a listening ear again, need a friend again and when they do remember that you've been BLOCKED.  This means that you're not that person to meet the need, fill the void, share the pain, etc.  Forgive them and move on and use this experience as a lesson well learnt; which is for you not to be too quick to try and solve peoples problems because you don't know why they are suffering. Many are ONLY reaping what they've sown.