YOU ARE SENDING A MESSAGE

Men are predestined by God to be leaders in their homes, community, work environment and in the church. Women were created by God and given unto men as a gift from God and a helpmate. Sadly most hurting women are suffering from the manner in which a man has treated her. Men please learn to love and use your gift from God appropriately and stop being abusive in your words, your conduct and in everything that concerns God's gift to you. Your salvation is an eternal gift from God and the  same should apply to your wife. The manner in which a man treats his wife is a open manifestation of the honor he has for Elohim, God. Your life will speak the truth about your relationship with God by the way you treat your wife.

Women the same applies to us, the difference is that men are to be loving, supportive and understanding.  Regardless of our accomplishments men must keep in mind that we are  the weaker vessels.  We must honor men as we honor God and men must realize how God relates to His church.  God does not dishonor His church, therefore men should not do anything to dishonor their wives.  The relationship with mankind commenced with God providing for the man, therefore the relationship between a man and woman should commence with a man providing for his potential wife.  We need to realize that our lives are sending a message to the world.  Our words "I love you" is most believed when demonstrated publicly without any form of intimacy.  It is more of what we do, than what we say, that demonstrates true love.  What is the message that you are sending to the world around you concerning how you feel about your wife?  What is the message that your wife is sending to the world around her concerning how you make her feel, her life's disposition and her mental and emotional state.  Whatever the message your wife is sending to the world, believe it or not, it  is a real reflection of YOU! Don't be deceived, people know who you really are by your wife's happiness or unhappiness, by her completeness of incompleteness... and your message is?